Monday, 10 March 2014

Becky Brown and her take, as a relative newcomer on village life.

Last year we moved our young family from the bright lights of London to Parisot, a small village in the Tarn-et-Garonne region of France. Although we knew the village well (I had been coming here on holiday since I was 6) we were worried that village life wouldnt suit us as we feared it would be too quiet after the hustle and bustle of a capital. But having lived here now for 7 months we are more than suited to our new lives, and Parisot has surprised us as for such a small village there is always something going on.

The village has all you could need, with its own two bakeries, shop, café, restaurant, hairdresser, post office, médiathèque, football pitch, swanky still new looking medical centre and school. In the mornings you can choose which bakery to get your bread and croissants from before dropping the kids off (or not) at school. On Friday mornings you can buy your local groceries from the village market, fresh fruit and veg, cheese, fish, meat and obligatory wine! Most other things you can pick up from the local shop and if its the weekend why not treat yourself to a patisserie from the bakery which does very good cakes! Drop off your letters to friends and family in the post office before stopping off in the médiathèque to return your french cookery book and pick up the latest English title (yes many village libraries have an English section.) On walking around the village you can practise your French greeting your neighbours, discussing the latest mayoral candidates (a hot topic at the moment) and the gorgeous weather that is set to stay for at least the coming week.

For lunch, you can head up to the Belvedere and eat while taking in this view. Granted not all villages have this view but most have pleasant picnic spots that out of holiday season are often underused. After lunch you could head back to the médiathèque for French lessons or a life drawing workshop. Or you could take a walk down the back route to the village lake where you can take in the beautiful French countryside, feed the ducks, walk the dog, pick wild flowers…….(fill in the blank!)

Early evening an apéritif in the café is a must before heading to the restaurant for dinner. A reasonably priced three course meal of a traditional French menu prepared by the chef. If its the first Friday of the month you can then head back to the café for the monthly jam session with instrument in hand or ears to listen. If exercise is more your thing you can head to the salle des fêtes on a Tuesday evening for Zumba or if you enjoy singing you can join the village choir which rehearses every Thursday and is having a concert very soon! If you enjoy really getting involved you could help out at one of the annual village festivals, be it the art or village festival in August, or the literary festival in October.

Granted village life is not for everyone but for us as a family its been great. There are still times when we feel like were the only ones around, especially during Winter, but its been lovely to have neighbours to get advice from and share a meal with. Choose your village carefully as each is very different and not all as active as Parisot. But if you are planning to move to France we would thoroughly recommend it as an option and there are often very nice places just outside villages (within walking distance) as within!
Becky
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