I was interested to see the article on Funerals for the Living Family - ie those left behind and mourning their lost loved ones. (Tuesday 10 June 2014)
Perhaps your readers would be interested to know that the Anglican Chaplaincy of Midi-Pyrenees and Aude is always interested to hear from bereaved families and to help them in these often difficult and time-constrained circumstances, particularly when it comes to dealing with Pompes Funebres here in France. Although they provide an excellent service they are a little different to the family-run businesses we may have experience with in the UK? Are you aware that the time restriction can be extended beyond the usual 3 days if family and friends want to come from the UK or further afield? Cremation in a predominantly Catholic country is also relatively new on the scene but becoming more popular.
As Clergy and Lay Readers of the Church of England we are used to being pastorally sensitive and caring for anyone who might ask for our help at these times. We work with the close family listening to their needs and using the funeral service outline we can usually be flexible in our approach with most requests.
Do visit our website for further information or email and ask for someone to come and discuss this important topic with you at no charge! None of us is getting any younger and someday we all have to face the fact that we will die. Isnt it better that we should be prepared for that event and considerate for those we will leave behind? In all the hundreds of funerals I have taken over the years it has always been helpful for the bereaved family when they have had some idea of the wishes of that person they have lost. Funerals are a time to celebrate the life and achievements of those we have loved but see no longer.
With every blessing,
Yours Sincerely,
Andrew
Andrew R Hawken
Chaplain Midi-Pyrenees & Aude
and Area Dean for France (South)
Val says that is a really helpful letter Andrew, to a generally ageing readership. Comforting to think someone knowledgeable is there for us all and also helpful to know we can extend the time so family around the world could come for the final important ceremony of a loved one's passing.
thank you
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